Tony Martin – 12th May 2026

Tony was back with another of his fabulous sing along sessions.

Seen here with his amplifier, we remember the early days when the group was small enough for Tony to play acoustic guitar. How the group has grown.

Creative Companion Collaborations were back again today to offer free massages to members. The team are lovely and the massages are always popular.

As Tony played on the members took to the dance floor. Tony commented we are the only place he visits where he takes two guitars as he doesn’t want to kill the mood if a string breaks, as our members go, go go.

Getting to know Team Member Peter

Peter has lived with ongoing health issues for the past 9 years. Throughout this time he has kept up a consistent strength training and exercise program that he has no doubt enables him to cope and keep him going.

He has had a life long interest in learning and photography. Infrequently he takes free online courses to better his knowledge. He has maintained a photo diary for the past 14 years posting one photo a day with a short narrative.

He believes being able to read and write is a gateway to knowledge and in his younger days spent time teaching illiterate adults to read and write.

The Reflections Friendship Group is next at Shrewsbury House on 26th May 2026 at 1pm when Julian will give us another solid hour of top tunes.

Please note: in our uploaded photos we blur the faces of all group members. You do see the faces of our wonderful volunteers.

Jamie Steen – 28th April 2026

Jamie was back to entertain us with another great show. As we have come to expect there were 12 outfit changes in an hour. He really is the master of a quick change.

Herd Mentality continues to be popular. Today we welcomed back team member Ann who joined Paola to host the game.

Jamie’s outfits always bring smiles and his Tina Turner outfit brought gasps of amazement. It is wonderful to see people’s reactions especially those who have never seen him before.

Getting to know Team Member Marilyn

Marilyn loves meeting and chatting to people and likes to be active. Her favourite pastimes are keep fit, gardening, decorating, plus cooking and entertaining. If she has any spare time she also likes to read. All this activity is certainly keeping her young at heart.

The Reflections Friendship Group is next at Shrewsbury House on 12th May 2026 at 1pm when Tony will perform another sing-a-long session

Please note: in our uploaded photos we blur the faces of all group members. You do see the faces of our wonderful volunteers.

Mark Sedgwick – 14th April 2026

Mark was back to entertain us. He brought along a high stool as he need to take it easy as he was still recovering from knee surgery. There was still plenty of energy.

Mayor Linda Bird came to visit the group again and joined in with the activities and some dancing.

Shrewsbury House were having the floor varnished in our usual room so Herd Mentality led by Paola was played in the communal library room. Everyone seemed to enjoy the change of view.

During the first hour, Older People’s Fitness Coach Julie was back to run another Fit for Life Workshop. Team members and Mayor Linda were on hand to assist her.

As usual Mark got the room going and there was plenty of singing and dancing from 2pm.

Getting to know Team Member Mary

Mary is one of our activity leads for good reason, she loves being active. Her interests include her dog Bella and dog walking, environmental issues, holidays trekking in the mountains, gardening, climbing, paddle boarding and kayaking, painting and sculpting and attending folk festivals. It must be what keeps her young. How does she fit it all in!

The Reflections Friendship Group is next at Shrewsbury House on 28th April 2026 at 1pm when Jamie will perform his Born in the USA show.

Please note: in our uploaded photos we blur the faces of all group members. You do see the faces of our wonderful volunteers.

Scott Elvis – 31st March 2026

Elvis was back in the building wearing his finest Las Vegas outfit!

Scott Elvis has all the tunes and the moves to entertain the group.

Today we were celebrating Easter. Janet went round offering members an Easter Egg.

Eyes down! Bingo caller Dave has a regular group who love to come see if they can win a prize.

A quieter moment with Elvis after so many fast paced songs.

Elvis doing his big finale to Suspicious Minds.

Getting to know Team Member Janet

As she has got older Janet has become interested in ageing well. In her early 40’s she was put on blood pressure medication, decided she needed to change her life, lost 4 stone and joined a gym, enjoying spin (cycling) classes. She did a health and fitness program in 2023 and started lifting weights regularly, something she has continued to do at the gym twice a week. She also researches information that will help her and Peter to live well and loves to share her knowledge.

Janet is a big fan of Parkrun. She attended the first ever Greenwich Parkrun (now called Avery Hill) and to date has completed 596 parkruns via either running or walking. She also walks regularly and does line dancing. Other interests including reading and crocheting small items usually butterflies to give away.

The Reflections Friendship Group is next at Shrewsbury House on 14th April 2026 at 1pm when Mark will be back to entertain us.

Please note: in our uploaded photos we blur the faces of all group members. You do see the faces of our wonderful volunteers.

Julian Garman – 17th March 2026

It was a pleasure to have Julian back with us again.

Julian played some great tunes and as usual there were songs from several decades.

Today Julie was back to hold the 2nd Fit for Life Workshop. Julie had this to say about her visit. “It was a pleasure either seeing you again today or meeting you for the first time. Having returned after our first session not knowing what to expect I was overjoyed to see such amazing and confident sit to stands, even if it took a few attempts to fully stand it didn’t matter and do remember those initial mini lifts are building both strength and confidence. Almost more important, however, was witnessing a general attitude of ‘can do’ which was great to see.” It is great to see so many members taking part and improving their strength and balance.

Members love the opportunity to take to the dance floor.

Getting to know Team Member Tony

Tony has always liked exercise. In his younger days he used to run 50 miles a week! These days he still loves running and most Saturday mornings you will find him at a parkrun.

In addition, he loves sailing, snorkelling and tai chi. He has also recently returned to ballroom and latin dancing. He has been a vegan for the past 8 years and loves DIY. With all these active interests he makes the ideal choice for one of our activity leads.

The Reflections Friendship Group is next at Shrewsbury House on 31st March 2026 at 1pm when Scott Elvis will be in the building.

Please note: in our uploaded photos we blur the faces of all group members. You do see the faces of our wonderful volunteers.

Tony Martin – 17th February 2026

Tony warmed up the room on a very cold day. Janet and I were sadly unable to be at the group today as we were both unwell. The group ran as usual in the good hands of our team.

The group enjoyed a medley of 50s/60s and 70s tunes including Tony favourites.

Tony dedicated Ring of Fire to Janet and Peter. So thoughtful of him and lovely to know we were missed.

Fitness for life

Today we launched a new initiative, our Fitness for Life Workshops. It is a well known fact that older people gradually lose strength and balance which puts them more at risks of falls. In an effort to help our members hold onto and build up on their strength, this year we are working with Julie, an Older People’s Fitness Coach who will be running short monthly workshops. There will be two 20 minute workshops in the first hour of up to 16 people per workshop.

Today’s workshop focused on leg strength, in particular movement patterns to build strength getting out of chairs. Adaptions were given to suit individual abilities. Julie can be seen here explaining to the group what they will be doing.

Introducing Julie

Introducing Julie: “During my 34 years working within the fitness world I have taught a wide range of classes, both in Clubs and independently, from crazy spin (where I first met Janet and Peter) through to peaceful stretch, run my own personal training business for 25 years, managed Health Clubs and more recently taught people in their homes via Zoom. As much as I’ve loved jumping up and down and shouting – or should I say ‘encouraging’ – people, very early on I realised that I enjoyed working with those people who wouldn’t necessarily be heading to the gym but who could benefit from being shown exercise that would both relate to and help them in their day to day living, so I began running classes and workshops within the community, working alongside local Community Nurses, Doctors Surgeries and Osteopaths. I feel very honoured to be now advising and helping people at Reflections.”

The Reflections Friendship Group is next at Shrewsbury House on 3rd March 2026 at 1pm when we will have Tom Carradine with his famous Cockney Sing-a-long.

Please note: in our uploaded photos we blur the faces of all group members. You do see the faces of our wonderful volunteers.

Vikki Melrose – 9th December 2025

It’s Christmas party time!

Vikki once again came along to our Christmas party ensuring everyone had a great time.

Before the festivities got underway, the team had a rare get together to enjoy lunch together and celebrate another successful year of the Friendship Group.

We were pleased to welcome back Mayor Linda who popped into wish members a Happy Christmas before going onto another event. It is a busy time of year for a Mayor.

We were delighted the ASDA Foundation gave us funding for our Christmas party. A total of 52 members and 12 team enjoyed a sandwich lunch and hot drink.

While members were having their lunch, there was a surprise visit from Father Christmas and Dominic the Donkey, aka lovely Kath, the Shrewsbury House Manager, seen here with Mayor Linda, who came in on her day off to dress up as Dominic. Father Christmas and Dominic were followed around by Peter with his phone and a speaker playing the Dominic the Donkey song sung by Lou Monte. It’s a catchy song. Father Christmas handed out a small goodie bag to all the members.

As is tradition, we held a raffle from prizes donated by group members. All members were able to buy a ticket and win a prize. We are grateful to trustee Sarah who took a day off work to come and run the raffle table as she has done since we started this tradition.

Once lunch was over, it was time for singing and dancing but not before another tradition of everyone joining in an interactive sing a long of the 12 Days of Christmas led by Janet and the team. Everyone had a lovely afternoon.

The Friendship Group will now take a break until 2026. We look forward to more socialising and fun next year. Happy Christmas.

The Reflections Friendship Group is next at Shrewsbury House on 6th January 2026 at 1pm when Tony will entertain us.

Please note: in our uploaded photos we blur the faces of all group members. You do see the faces of our wonderful volunteers.

Julian Garman – 11th November 2025

What an afternoon!! There was so much going on today.

Julian was in top form, playing plenty of powerful well known tunes on his guitar, harmonica and cornet.

Dave has now attracted quite a bingo crew. In our games, everyone gets a small prize whether they win or not. Dave is learning the bingo phrases, though everyone shouts out the phrases as the numbers come up even if he doesn’t know them.

We welcomed two therapists from Creative Companion Collaborations who were giving free hand massages to group members. There was even time towards the end for some team members to have one too. Members reported the ladies were very good and the massages were relaxing. Thank you for coming along ladies.

Karlee, our local ASDA Community Life Champion came along to present us with a cheque for £1,000 from the ASDA Foundation. This money will be used to fund our Christmas party on 9th December. Thank you Karlee so much for nominating our group for this award and for the donation of some biscuits and squash that you brought along today.

We also welcomed Andrew, Service Manager Bexley from the Alzheimer’s Society. He came along to see what happens at the Friendship Group and kindly topped up our supplies of Alzheimer’s Society publications which Helen, our Librarian, gives out to new members. He plans to come back in the New Year to deliver an updated Dementia Friends session for the team and anyone who would like to join us.

As always, great music stimulates the group members to take to the dance floor. I’m sure they will all sleep well tonight.

Team member highlight

Introducing Helen. Helen is our resident Librarian. Since taking on this role her warmth, keenness and willingness means she has also acquired two other roles. She is our Playlist for Life lead and has volunteered to run a reminiscence table with the Call to Mind Game if there is demand. Helen loves all of these roles as she enjoys chatting to group members and finding our more about them.

The Reflections Friendship Group is next at Shrewsbury House on 25th November 2025 at 1pm. Mark will entertain us and the elves will be in town.

Please note: in our uploaded photos we blur the faces of all group members. You do see the faces of our wonderful volunteers.

Scott Elvis – 30th September 2025

Elvis was in the building!! We rocked the afternoon away with The King.

An hour of dancing to classic Elvis tunes performed by star turn Scott on his first visit to the Friendship Group. He was very popular and he will return.

In the first hour we continued with crafts, word searches and a reminiscence session. In the Library, we played the “Reflections Friendship Group” Spotify playlist that Peter had created from the songs written on the bunting at the previous session. The playlist can be found on Spotify using the Search option.

Elvis has so many well known songs to choose from that the dance floor was continually busy.

Elvis charmed the audience. Some members were especially fascinated by him.

An amazing experience that was shared with us this afternoon, was that one of our members seen on the left, was stationed in Germany next to the barracks that Elvis was stationed at. One day when our member happened to have his camera with him, Elvis came out of his barracks and he took the photo on the right! What a special memory.

Also visiting us today for the first time was local Councillor Raja, seen here with team member Helen. He came along to find out what happens at the Friendship Group. He spoke to group members and joined in the singing and dancing.

Team member highlight

Introducing Lynne. Lynne is our Meeter and Greeter. She is the friendly face members see when they first arrive at Shrewsbury House, with her welcome table in the foyer letting them know about any special news of the day. She puts new members at their ease, so very important, and welcomes back existing members. She is always happy to have a chat to people.

The Reflections Friendship Group is next at Shrewsbury House on 14th October 2025 at 1pm. Tony will give us another sing-a-long with his top tunes.

Please note: in our uploaded photos we blur the faces of all group members. You do see the faces of our wonderful volunteers.