Pop stars – 6th April 2021

Group members have regularly told us about their favourite pop stars. Today we added a new band to the list: Iron Maiden! – something of a departure from our usual jolly pop people.

Trees were in blossom again…

Gyda showed us a quick and very effective tree craft.

Lynne produced another top quality quiz.

More humour from Pearl:

Pearl’s tunes this week were: “Good Company” by Alma Cohan, Manfred Mann “Do Wa Diddy Diddy” and “Living Doll” by Sir Cliff Richard.

Gerry’s “April fool”:

Chi Ball with Gyda fired-up everyone. Then she calmed us down…

Gyda’s “Life”:

Gyda’s shoes were very popular…

Keep safe and healthy.

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Ambitions and Regrets – 30th March 2021

As ever, the group came up with some interesting thoughts.

We discussed the results in more detail and there were a few regrets that came out.

It looks like some of our members will be busy doing new things soon.

Gyda’s craft focused on Easter rabbits.

More pearls from Pearl:

Lynne produced an Easter quiz.

Pearl’s tunes for this week were “I did it my way”, “Any dream will do” and “Rivers of Babylon”.

Gerry gave us “Regrets”:

And one following up on last week’s them “Teachers”:

Chi Ball with Gyda was out exercise for today.

Gyda was “Sending love”:

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Memorable teachers – 23rd March 2021

Teachers – everyone had a story…

The group told us their experiences with teachers…

There were more stories of nasty violent teachers, but let’s move on…

Pearl’s best teacher jokes:

Peal’s tunes this week included: “Zip-A-Dee-Do-Dah” and “Wonderful World”.

Gyda had a chick themed craft.

Lynne had a quiz.

Gyda had more Chi Ball then…

Gyda’s “Spontaneous kindness”:

We were delighted David had been painting again:

Another jolly Tuesday afternoon.

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First holidays – 16th March 2021

Following my holiday (care of the NHS) I am catching up on the group blogs.

First holidays was another popular topic. Here are some of the group’s reminiscences:

Gyda had another of her excellent crafts.

This week it was Zentangles (a miniature abstract work of art created by a collection of patterns).

There were some excellent examples of homework from last week!

Lynne stepped in and gave us another top quiz.

Pearl asked “What’s green?”:

Pearl played us “Music to watch girls by”, Bony M – “Holiday”, Bobby Darren – “Beyond the Sea”.

Gyda’s Chi Ball was as popular as ever.

Gyda told us: “Choosing – that’s good”:

Prepare to go out and meet people!

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Mothers – 9th March 2021

Everyone had their thoughts on today’s theme.

Janet couldn’t vote, but she would have picked “Something funny” – her mum playing drums – to everyone’s surprise, while on holiday.

  • L – played with her mum’s jewellery, rouge and lippy.
  • M – her Mother was a brilliant accordion player and she liked poetry.
  • A – his mum taught him to cook and bake cakes.
  • P – recalls a trip to Ramsgate on a train with the tent loaded on a pram.
  • J – her Mother made toffee apples and toffee onions for prizes on camping holiday sports.
  • P – showed a photo of her mother aged about 75 playing the piano.
  • M – her mum was a knitter. 
  • C – said her mum always stuck up for her (even when faced with a motorcycle gang).

Gyda was just a blur with her speedy flower basket craft. We expect great things from the group’s homework – no pressure.

Nikki, joined us again. She recalled a special dress, pink with yellow flowers. She went out to play, forgot how special the dress was, and it was cut while playing jungles in the garden with the boys.

Lynne produced another tricky quiz. Fortunately, we have some top quizzers.

Pearl’s jokes were up to their usual standard:

Lynne needed a lie down after Pearl’s jokes.

Janet was keen to ensure we fitted-in all our favourite sessions. We always overrun a bit – but we enjoy the packed programme.

The requested tune for this week was “Staying Alive”. We all had a boogie.

Gerry gave us “Mother’s love“:

Chi Ball with Gyda fired-up everyone. Then she calmed us down…

Gyda’s “Monkey“:

David had his homework ready…

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Pets – 2nd March 2021

Pets are popular – especially with our group – from cats to snakes via tortoises. Some unusual pet behaviour included an Alsatian that jumped over a 7 foot fence and a black cat that bit people that tried to stroke it.

Our volunteers had some very friendly looking pets, which you can see below.

We ran our usual sessions today: homework, a chat about pets, quiz, jokes, songs, dancing, craft, poem Chi ball, and a reflection reading.

Janet was a bit slow seeing some of Pearl’s joke, but eventually… saw the funny side.

Gyda had a tricky craft – making a paper tortoise (based on Lynne’s pet). She also suggested drawing, and colouring-in a tortoise.

Pearl’s showed us her friend and shared a top joke selection:

Dot and Jen were seen enjoying the jokes – they are a tough audience.

Lynne (the birthday girl) ran the quiz, came up with some interesting facts and showed us her 49 year-old tortoise.

The requested tune for this week was “Top of the World”, Pearl also gave us “How much is that doggie in the window” and “Champion the wonder horse”.

Gerry is not a pet person, but he had a pet poem:

Gyda’s Chi Ball exercise was short, but fun.

Gyda (aged about 4 and her friend) told us about Accepting ourselves:

I almost forgot to show one of our top homework crafts…

Stay home, Protect the NHS, Save lives, have a jab, get ready for emerging from lockdown!

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First Bikes – 23rd February 2021

Boris has a plan – so we might all meet in person in the not too distant future…

But, for today, we were on Zoom and talking bicycles.

Our group had a lot of memories of biking escapades. Our friend in the West Country had stories of being a postman (bottom bike) and the miles of riding with a heavy sack of post. His other bikes had also done many miles of happy travelling.

Another member had come a cropper when distracted by an attractive young lady – he was riding his bike to work for the first time – speeding down a steep hill – and crashed into a car that he hadn’t notice had stopped. Oops.

We were told you could get a bike for no deposit, in the past, even an expensive one. Unfortunately, this one also found its way to the repair shop on its first outing. Our member saw her friends, took her hands off the handlebars to wave, hit a bump and had an expensive crash.

David’s first bike(s):

David is still the keenest of keen cyclists.

Lynne was back as quiz master. Here are a couple of brain teasers: “What is the largest country in Africa by area?” and “Which president has Richard Nixon as his Vice President?”.

Gyda had a crafty bike to make.

Pearl had to pay her bike off in weekly instalments. Joke selection:

The requested tune for the week was “Que Sera Sera”, Pearl also gave us “Daisy Daisy” and “The push bike song”.

Gerry should keep his eyes on the road when cycling – My bike and me

Gyda’s Chi Ball exercises class was popular as ever.

Gyda (who had had a green tricycle when she was five) told us about Strength:

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Embarrassing moments – 16th February 2021

It’s Shrove Tuesday – anyone for pancakes? And… it is 50 years since we converted to decimal currency.

We are all of an age to recognise these notes and coins. No farthings – that would be too old for the group!

Our “Show and Tell” picture interlude is gaining momentum. This week we had 8 photos. These ranged from an enormous garage, that was in the (slow) process of being tidied – to a lovely bunch of flowers.

Our friends in the West Country sent this picture – apparently straw people are all around the local area – what a fun idea.

Sharon visited us for the last time today, she has a new job with the Greenwich re-enablement team. We must say “Thank you” to Sharon for her help and support – and joining in with the fun in the group. Gary from  the Carers Centre joined today and will be coming in future. Gary is a former punk rocker from the 1970s, so he should fit in well.

David had been busy re-purposing some of Gyda’s crafts to make a valentine’s card for his wife. He also showed us this 3D creation. A talented man.

Eventually we got to Embarrassing Moments. The group were full of these. For example:

  • M – tripped over, carrying 4 open bottles of wine down some steps in front of her bosses. She didn’t spill a drop or get hurt – she was too drunk to notice! 
  • J – when she was16, went to the pictures on a blind date to please her brother in law. Later she told the him what a drip the date was, at great length, the date was in the next room and heard it all. 
  • C – after a very bad and busy start to the day, arrived at work to have a difficult moment in front of her boss. He gave her the news – she had come to work without a skirt on!!

Janet substituted for Lynne as quiz master today. I found the February questions very easy (I had done the quiz last Saturday). The others got on very well too.

Gyda invited us to make pancakes – fortunately, no cooking was required.

Pearl’s Bees and more jokes:

The requested tune for the week was “Walk Tall”, Pearl also gave us “Waiting at the church” and “I only wanna be with you”.

Gerry – My embarrassment:

Gyda’s Chi Ball exercises class was full, as usual.

Gyda’s Happiness

The vaccination programme is progressing in the Royal Greenwich borough. The number of local vaccination centres continues to grow.

The Queen Elizabeth hospital is the borough’s first mass vaccination centre. On 1st March the plan is to use Charlton Athletic football ground as the second. For more information go to Healthwatch Greenwich.

Stay home, Protect the NHS, Save lives, have a jab

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Ailments & remedies of childhood – 9th February 2021

The chill was on – freezing cold, the snow everywhere. We were all warm in our Zoom windows.

Janet started the session with a reminder that, from this weekend, we will begin the Chinese The Year of the Ox.

Next was our picture “Show and Tell” interlude. We had photos of – Pearl’s knitted hat and an amaryllis – Peter and Janet’s 100 piece old fashioned shop puzzle – and J’s – snowy back garden, her beautiful orchids and Beware of Joe garden ornament. 

We started our discussion on the theme of the week by chatting about how we survived childhood illnesses.

Additional illnesses included: A’s rickets, he was in hospital for 5 years and didn’t speak till he was 6 or 7 – G had problems with her kidneys – C got head butted and knocked unconscious by a ram – D had his tonsils out.

We also had some additional remedies: R’s gran told him to put pepper on all his food and said he wouldn’t get a cold – P alcohol to quieten him down when he was a baby – M cod liver oil, boiled milk with onions & pepper – D orange juice from the clinic with a spoonful of cod liver oil in it – N an egg up with a squeeze of lemon and honey. 

Hospital stays seem to have changed a lot, as has child safety: D was playing with his elder brother, near the Sidcup bypass, when his brother fell on broken glass and had to go to hospital. D, age 4 or 5, was left behind. He managed to find his way home and was minded by a neighbour. The police were out searching for him for a long time before he was found with the neighbour. 

Nikki couldn’t find any red clothes, but her red tea was in tune with the Valentine’s colour theme.

Lynne took us through a Valentine’s quiz. Try these questions… In which city did Romeo and Juliet meet? and Why do some people tie cans onto the back of wedding cars?

Gyda’s had the crafters making hearts from strips of paper. Several members had completed their Bunch of flowers homework from last week.

Pearl’s Doctor, Doctor jokes:

The requested tune for the week was “One day at a time” We then sang and danced to: “A spoon full of sugar” and “When you’re in love with a beautiful woman”.

Gerry had a poem about child psychology:

Gyda’s Chi Ball exercises had us up, down and around.

Gyda finished with Buried dreams

Stay home, Protect the NHS, Save lives, don’t book a holiday.

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First wages – 2nd February 2021

Janet asked the group who had had the vaccine for covid. The majority either had, or were booked-in. Such good news.

We discussed first jobs back in October 2020. This time we discussed first wages. Most members could recall their wages (see below) – Janet and I had no recollection : (



We all seem to have started out in tough times, with low wages. I was very impressed with L (Lynne – our master of quizzes) – who managed to go out on 4 nights every week.

We had another shed story this week, or rather a history of a shed over 40 years !

In the last couple of months our group friends, who have moved to the West Country, have been tinkering with their easily manageable front garden. Here is the work in progress.

Our contribution to “Show and tell” was our recent conversion to being dissectologists. Janet talked through the 7 Surprising Benefits of Doing Jigsaw Puzzles for All Ages – you can read more here.

Lyne had a 1980’s pop tune quiz:

Lynne has been very good recently in giving us quizzes that even I have a chance of getting some of the answers right. For example “Which was the only British pop group to with the Eurovision Song Contest in the 80s?”.

Gyda’s craft was making a bouquet of flowers.

Two goodies from Pearl:

Time for singing and dancing to: “Money, money, money” and “(Money) Can’t buy me love”.

Gyda’s Chi Ball exercises are always very popular.

Gyda ended the session by suggesting Peace:

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